Ladies, can you relate?
Have you ever felt that:
* You feel invisible in your own home?
* He's present, but not really with you?
* You're trying to be a Proverbs 31 woman, but you feel like you're failing?
* You're doing all the work, and he never changes?
* You've lost yourself in being a wife and mother?
* You walk on eggshells hoping to avoid another fight or cold war?
* You wonder if this is all there is?
Change is possible...
I have been there too, and I know how discouraging it feels to have lost hope that things will ever change. After 30 years of frustration and distance, I found Laura Doyle's book, "The Empowered Wife." It felt like someone flipped the light switch on! The skills in her book completely transformed my marriage from cold wars to connection.
After implementing the skills in "The Empowered Wife" with the help of a certified coach, the playfulness, connection, and fun are restored, and I can truly say that this is the best my marriage has been in the 3 decades we have been together.The changes in my life and marriage were so significant, that I decided to become a certified Laura Doyle relationship coach myself so I could help other women "create the marriage of their dreams with the man they already have."I was interviewed on Laura Doyle's podcast, you can listen here my story:
What is coaching?
Traditional marriage counseling left me feeling frustrated and stuck. Coaching is different- it's all about moving forward and implementing new skills to experience transformation. And, the best part is, this coaching is just for women, there's no need to convince him to join in. You have more power than you know to transform your relationship, and it will become so clear when you have a coach walking alongside you each step of the way.
Just imagine...
Imagine how it would feel to cherished and adored. Instead of carrying frustration, loneliness, or burnout, you feel a renewed sense of joy, confidence, and connection in your life and marriage. Feeling lighter, freer, and more at peace—like a weight has been lifted from your shoulders. No longer reacting out of exhaustion or resentment, but instead responding with calm, clarity, and grace.
What clients are saying...
"I was looking for someone to help me reach goals in my own life and my marriage. I had been praying for someone who I could talk with and when the opportunity came along to talk with Kristin, I jumped at the chance! My experience was fantastic! No matter what issue I had going on, Kristin really helped me break it down, looking at the situation in a healthy and positive way, and steered me toward achievable actions and/or responses.
The intimacy skills are life changing for me and my marriage, like breathing life into a dried up plant. I found that the skills, especially self care, are like surrendering to Jesus and trusting Him with the outcome. It is SOOOO MUCH BETTER than trying to be the one in control. The skills are useful in all relationships, not just marriage. I would 200% recommend Intimacy Skills private coaching with Kristin to others!" ~Debby, married 29 years
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"Before working with Kristin I thought my husband needed to shape up as I felt exhausted and as if the mental load of raising two kids was on my shoulders. I initially did not think I needed coaching as I found Laura Doyle’s books to improve my marriage yet then I realised that I only had one life and wanted a fantastic marriage, not just a good enough one. I felt drawn to Kristin as my coach since she came across as calm and non judgemental. Private coaching me with insights about myself, in conjunction with a plan as to what I could do differently (right now) to have a better experience in my marriage.
I now have a peaceful and more playful marriage and feel very connected with my husband - he brought me flowers for no reason last week - that certainly would not have happened before coaching with Kristin." ~Harriet, married 7 years
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"My experience with Kristin was wonderful. She was always so gentle and kind and listened very carefully when I expressed myself. I felt very safe and comfortable sharing intimate details of my life and relationship with her. When she shared her own experiences with me I felt heard, like we could relate so well with each other and I felt I wasn’t alone. It was always an uplifting time for me.
I benefited so much from Kristin’s coaching. She helped me uncover blindspots in my practice of the intimacy skills and demonstrated how she had success in her own marriage. She helped me have more courage to experiment with a new way of being that ultimately has made my marriage better than ever. The resentment and arguments have disappeared and I feel adored and cared for by my husband like never before. I never dreamt I could experience such a wonderful relationship, but it's what I have now! Even more surprising, is how much better I feel about myself and have learned to become a happier, more joyful person.
I highly recommend anyone getting coaching from Kristin, she is such a trustworthy and compassionate coach who has helped me transform my relationship. She is well versed in the intimacy skills and is a powerful guide in my journey. I wouldn’t think twice about reaching out to her in the future and have gotten immense value from our sessions together." ~Sommer, married 26 years
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"Kristin was so encouraging and loving. I learned something new in every session, and even if I failed, she continued to encourage me and be my coach, and truly cared. She is so passionate about this as it has helped her as well. The benefits I received during my private coaching with Kristin was being able to share the depths of my heart with her and never feeling condemned or looked down on. I came away with a whole new appreciation for my husband and our marriage. I saw so many things in myself that needed repair. I was keenly aware of some of the wrongdoing in some of my responses to my husband over the years. I had read so many self-help books on marriage, relationships, etc. that I was no longer willing to do the work required to help myself. I was SO wrong. As I learned these skills, I was able to glimpse the hope of a new beginning."
~(anonymous), married over 40 years
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Let's connect!
Remember, this coaching is not like marriage counseling, it’s for women only ~ so there's no need to convince your spouse to participate! You have the power to single-handedly bring back the joy, connection, and fun in your relationship! Schedule a free discovery call with me today to find out how you can go from surviving to thriving.Kristin Hoftyzer
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